Xeni and VB had sex. It was one of those relationships where Xeni felt like she was brutally dumped and VB thought she was just moving on from a short-term fling. Xeni got really really upset and purged VB from Boingboing entirely in a rather passive-aggressive shot at her. People noticed and called shenanigans about a group blog that crusades against censorship and suppression of information *everywhere else* pulling this kind of stunt. TNH started banning people right and left and said anyone calling shenanigans was an ingrate who didn't deserve to be on Boingboing.